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This is a safe space for healing and building confidence.

My self-love journey started after my first heartbreak in my late 20s. This experience challenged my understanding of my confidence and self-esteem. So, after carrying my heartbreak in shame for months I wondered how many other people were going through this but were not comfortable with saying it publicly.

I am challenging myself and other folx to heal from our traumas and love ourselves. So when the love we deserve come's we'll be ready.

I am learning my self-love language while treating myself to hella dates!

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Nah I’m Good On You | How To Let Go Of Unhealthy Relationships

Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. Have you ever found yourself giving away more than you are receiving and consistently asking for something…

Party Of One- Enjoying The Holiday Season As A Single Person

Hey! Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we’re learning how to navigate love and relationships. It’s that time of the year where we are transitioning into the holiday season, and for some…

Forgiveness

  Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. A great R&B singer named Summer Walker released an album called Still Over it recently. The…

Late Bloomer

  Hey! Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we’re learning how to navigate love and relationships. Recently, I started treating myself to dates weekly, and last week I went bowling. During that…

Bread Crumbs

Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. This week I struggled with finding balance in being authentic vs. oversharing. I struggled with this because…

Ripping Off The Band-Aid

Welcome to the crop top experience. My name is Carleighla (Car-LAY-la) Williams. I’ve wanted to create a blog for a very long time, but I was scared of how the blog would be received because, as we all know, sometimes social media can be a bit cruel, and I am a crybaby Cancer through and…

Nah I’m Good On You | How To Let Go Of Unhealthy Relationships

Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. Have you ever found yourself giving away more than you are receiving and consistently asking for something…

Party Of One- Enjoying The Holiday Season As A Single Person

Hey! Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we’re learning how to navigate love and relationships. It’s that time of the year where we are transitioning into the holiday season, and for some…

Forgiveness

  Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. A great R&B singer named Summer Walker released an album called Still Over it recently. The…

Late Bloomer

  Hey! Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we’re learning how to navigate love and relationships. Recently, I started treating myself to dates weekly, and last week I went bowling. During that…

Bread Crumbs

Welcome back; I am so glad you decided to drop in again for another installment of my self-care journey. If you’re new here, welcome to this safe space where we are learning to love ourselves in healthy ways. This week I struggled with finding balance in being authentic vs. oversharing. I struggled with this because…

Ripping Off The Band-Aid

Welcome to the crop top experience. My name is Carleighla (Car-LAY-la) Williams. I’ve wanted to create a blog for a very long time, but I was scared of how the blog would be received because, as we all know, sometimes social media can be a bit cruel, and I am a crybaby Cancer through and…